Why is it that men get the better of both worlds all the freaking time? They are put up on a pedestal and always given first priority in every relationship. In a marriage, the women always ends up giving more importance to what the husband wants, in a relationship the girlfriend always does things to please the other. Seldom does it happen vice versa. Take my case for example, I cook food Ro likes, I take part in social activities that Ro is interested in and does everything else in my life giving him the priority. My likes and dislikes take a back seat. I make an effort to like what he likes, but he relentlessly shows his disinterest in what i like, be it food, movies..name it and its true. I may get what i want at the end of it, but i have to throw a fit...which shouldn't be the best way. I'm sure there is a better way to do this. Sit him down and talk...nope not going to indulge in that lame activity again. It goes over his head.
I'm not sure about you but I know a whole lot of other women...moms, aunts, sisters, friends and a lot of others in blog world...who are exactly this way. A lot of the food blogs i follow mention why they make a particular dish because the better half likes it and not make something because he doesn't but craves for it so much, so waits till they are away to enhance their gastronomical pleasures. Why exactly are we doing this? I mean we are just like them and we deserve to get what we want right?????? Why are we trying so hard to please the men in our lives? Why cant they please us for a change...which I'm sure will never happen (at least in my case) so i am going to show my disinterest and cook food i like for a change (in fact i have already started:P) to start with.
Fridays are Pizza days and when we were in Nottingham, we used to buy the Tesco pizza's which were really good. Now that we are in London, we don't have a Tesco nearby and i absolutely dislike the Sainsbury and Asda pizza but love the Waitrose one, but the nearest is a tube stop away (these are the supermarkets here btw). So we tried out a few other Pizzeria's nearby, but they were either too expensive, bad service and wasn't all that great with regard to taste. I like Domino's and intend to stick to that. I tried all those other brands in the beginning because Ro liked it , but now i don't care..i want what i like! hmppppfffffff. If he wants let him get used to it.
WE should be men for a change and not try and WOO them all the time. Letting go in between is fine, but they should know we have likes and dislikes too and must respect that equally!
PS: I'm super pissed with a few things happening at my end and so the nasty post. I mean it though!